Luck Is Just a Little of It

Everything is we do in life based on feeling and then backed with logic. This is the way people tip. The whole idea of service is to give of self. In fact, deserve is a derivative term meaning ‘of service.’ The feeling you put out is that which you receive back. People tip monetarily based solely upon how they feel about themselves. This is something I’ve said to my coworkers for the past year. Though it’s perceived as pain, it’s absolutely nothing to do with you! A person can distinguish themselves as a person with a high value and look for the value in others, such as yourself, even when you might be having a bad day. The same goes with those with a low self worth. Do you think that someone with a low self worth has any worth in their wallet? And they’re sure not giving what little they have to you regardless of what you give to them.

Like any game, there are two players. Take into account that all of the players are responsible for the outcome of the game. If a person perceives you as loving and possess a high self worth, they will base it on their own self worth and example it monetarily. It goes into that people only see in others what they see in themselves. If a person feels bad and sees the flaws in them self, that’s exactly what that person will see in you as their server, acquaintance, friend and even family. How do you think your tip will come out then?, regardless of how you feel about yourself. Actually, there have been times where I’m feeling great about myself and performing really well and a guest will resent me for it showing how much they feel I’m worth to them. However, if someone sees all the good in things then they happen to see the good in you, even if you may feel badly about yourself.

Recently, I served a guest who made a menu choice overly complicated that she was even confusing herself. Had I a low self worth I could have lost my patience or set judgement on her [lowing my vibration] which would result in an discomfort between her and I- creating an disconnect from the rest of her party- resulting in very little money, a heavy head, sulking, seeking approval from co-workers, and so on... Instead, I merely looked at her with a smile and said “Let’s not make this complicated. Here’s what you can do...” and simply gave her clarity on her inquiry. Granted she was making it difficult and the rest of the party, I gather, knows her to do this. I did it with love and received over 20% gratuity from both couples. It’s so easy!

In essence, you can’t win em all. Like energy attracts like energy. In retrospect, you’ll attract those into your world that resemble your energy. It’s time to be honest with yourself and figure out if it’s positive or negative energy. As I see it, the positive people have the most money and are grateful for receiving a service. They’ll pay top dollar to receive great service and I am the one to give it to them. In my experience, they are usually confident, outgoing, outspoken, leaders, doers, givers, etc.. all of positive energy. They are the conduits of flow; givers. I’m always striving to be that to attract that. If there is a negativity, (not that I don’t have that either) those same type of people will relate and enter your world. In my experience, negative people usually hold on to their money and their grudges, have a low self worth and insult others to make themselves feel better. They are the stoppers of flow; takers.

So like any game you play, it takes two players and skill to come out on top. Luck has very little to do with it. When you are the love for yourself to bring to the table and make it completely worth your while, you come out on top. When you make it a win win, you are the king or queen of times. You’re in the zone. You’re in the flow. You are in the moment. You are the love of service and the service of love. You are giving and receiving rather than taking. You are honest. You are one with what is. And when you operate from this space of present moment consciousness, you are ultimately making “Good Money.”

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Scotty Jay